"There isn't any harm," Meredith says, shaking her head. "But there's no reason we have to do things just because they're tradition either. Does it really matter? I'll wear the white, I have the ring on, I am actually thinking about changing — or adjusting — my name. What have you done to me?" Even a year ago, the idea would have seemed crazy — even just one of those things — and now here she is.